Because this blog is occasionally read by a few kids at Bry'Chell's school, I will leave out names to avoid spreading gossip. I may leave out some other details as well.
Tuesday I received a call from the father of one of Bry'Chell's classmates. He asked if I could talk with his daughter. Sure, I'll talk to anybody. He just found out she's pregnant. He's confused and worried.
The dad is a really nice guy. The daughter, while not in Bry'Chell's inner circle of friends, is still one of her friends. The girl has always struck me as nice, but easily influenced.
I went to see her yesterday. This is one sad kid. She just wants to go back to school. I don't know the policies on school attendance and pregnancy.
On one hand, she could have an abortion and be back in school in a couple of days with no one the wiser. It happens as much here as at home.
On the other hand, she could have her baby--but then I'm not sure what happens. Is she allowed back in school? Can she attend school while pregnant? I don't know, but I will find out.
I feel for the kid. She does not want an abortion. She wants to go to school. She does not like the boy who got her pregnant--at least not anymore.
I feel for her dad. He has hopes for all his children, including this daughter. This puts a damper on things.
I can't talk with the mom because she doesn't speak any English, but I'm sure this is especially tough on her. In Buganda society, a mother is held responsible for her daughter's actions. This must be rough on her.
One question. How the heck do I get involved in this stuff?
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